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It’s time to help make spirits bright

17 Sep

The 11th season of Making Spirits Bright is underway, and you can help.

Making Spirits Bright is awesome organization here in Webster which for the last 11 years has been working quietly under the radar, doing amazing things for families in need during the holidays.

The organization works with area school counselors and social workers to identify families that need assistance. Then they collect wish lists from each of the family members and begin collecting items. And unlike many other programs, Making Spirits Bright provides far more than just gifts. They also assist with winter gear, household necessities, personal care items, cleaning supplies and various other items to lessen a family’s burden. PLUS, they provide for all members living in each household, no matter their age. This includes kids, parents, guardians, grandparents, and sometimes even pets.

The call has gone out for donations to support this year’s effort, and there are several ways you can help:

  • Sign up as a group, organization, business or family to help out.
  • Adopt an entire family (choose the family size you’re comfortable with, two-person and up)
  • Adopt one person (any age/gender identity)
  • Organize a collection drive for some of the most needed items, like toiletries, hygiene items, cleaning supplies, gift wrap, gift boxes and gift cards.
  • Make a monetary donation, which are used to purchase items on the list which were not adopted. Any donations, large or small, is appreciated. Contributions can be made via credit or debit here.

If you’d like to volunteer your time and kindness to the organization, click here to fill out a form and they’ll be in touch. If you have questions, email thegoodnessinitiative@gmail.com, or check out the Making Spirits Bright FAQ page. Plus, you can follow their Facebook page to keep on top of how things are going.

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(posted 9/17/2024)

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OFC Creations’ The Boy From Oz features a young Webster actor

9 Sep

Webster theater fans who plan to attend OFC Creations’ upcoming production of The Boy From Oz (Sept. 12 to 29) might very well recognize one of the young actors: Cameron Korzinski, an 11-year old who hails form the west side of Webster.

The Boy From Oz is a tribute to the life of Oscar-winning Australian entertainer Peter Allen, from his early years in the Outback to his rise to fame in the 1980s. He’s best known for hits including “I Honestly Love You,” “Best That You Can Do,” “Not The Boy Next Door,” “Everything Old Is New Again,” and “I Go to Rio.” He gained fame despite struggling through divorce, failure, and the AIDS epidemic.

The show stars Blake McIver Ewing as Peter Allen and Marcia Mitzman Gavin as Judy Garland. Ewing is well known for playing Waldo in The Little Rascals and Derek in ABC’s Full House; and Gaven starred in the original Broadway cast of The Who’s Tommy.

Young Webster resident Cam Korzinski has a big role in the production, playing the part of young Peter Allen. And he’s definitely no stranger to the stage; The Boy From Oz is Cam’s 21st OFC production since he joined the studio in 2021, and his fourth professional show, which have also included Oliver, The Jolly Holiday Brunch at the Old Farm Café, and most recently, Billy Elliot, where he played the part of Billy’s best friend Michael. So he’s basically grown up doing OFC shows, kids programs and camps.

Cameron Korzinski and Jack Hartman
Cam and Jack with Boy From Oz headliner Blake McIver Ewing

Backing up Cameron as understudy is another young man who’s no stranger to the OFC stage. Jack Hartman, also 11 years old, comes from Rochester. He and Cameron have been pretty much attached at the hip at OFC Creations for the last 11 years. They met in late 2021 when both were working on Aladdin, and have been best-theater-buds ever since. The Boy From Oz will be the seventh production they’ve appeared in together, including Billy Elliot.

This time around, Cam and Jack are working alongside some pretty famous (and Tony Award-winning) stars, which clearly is a reality of theater life which they long ago learned to take in stride. When I sat down to talk with them, they both presented themselves with poise and confidence. They’re both just entering 6th grade this year, but are already thinking about their futures in theater — while still enjoying their time with OFC.

“I would like to go to college for theater and acting,” Cam said. “But I’m just letting life take me.”

Jack is a bit more laser-focused.

“I’ve been thinking (about this) for a long time,” he said. “I always wanted to go to college for this definitely … do a bunch of shows, try out for Broadway young.” He’s even planning to get an agent within a few years.

So keep an eye on these young actors, everyone, because you may very well see their names in lights someday. But in the meantime, make sure to get your tickets for The Boy From Oz to see them in action.

The Boy From Oz will take the stage for 17 shows from Sept. 12 through 29 at the OFC Creations Theatre Center, 3450 Winton Place, Rochester.

The show is the first of OFC’s 2024-2025 Broadway In Brighton Series. The series continues in October with West Side Story, and future productions include The Prince of Egypt, Gypsy, Anything Goes and Jersey Boys. (Heads-up: Jersey Boys will feature Schroeder grad Adam Marino in an unbelievable performance as Frankie Valli.)

Individual tickets are on sale now for all of the shows, and season packages are also available. Click here for more information.

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(posted 9/6/2024)

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Webster couple celebrates 70 years

7 Sep
Aug. 28, 1954
John and Bernadetts Stebler

These days, when it seems like marriages are more likely to end in divorce than last even a few years, it’s heartwarming to hear a story about a couple whose union has truly survived the test of time.

Long-time Webster residents John and Bernadette Stebler are one such couple. On August 28, they celebrated 70 years of marriage, a testament to a commitment they made when they were both barely out of high school.

John and Bernadette met in 1949, when they both lived in Irondequoit and were working at the former Point Pleasant Hotel. Bernadette, just 16 years old, was staying at the hotel and babysitting for her neighbors — the hotel’s owners — while they worked all summer. John, 18 years old, was working odd jobs.

They were immediately smitten. “I spotted her, and I wasn’t going to let that one get away,” John said. Bernadette added, “I thought he was so cute.”

Their first date was pretty romantic. “I owned 50% of a used canoe,” John remembered, and he took his new girlfriend out on Irondequoit Bay one evening. “The bay was quiet then,” John said, but Bernadette still had to be strapped in because she didn’t swim.

Apparently the bay wasn’t calm enough for Bernadette’s boss, however.

She remembered, “The owners of the hotel, my bosses, they had a fit because we went out there in that canoe. It was dark out and there were all these speedboats on the bay and they could have tipped us over. I could have drowned because I couldn’t swim.” 

The canoe trip was the first of many dates that would follow over the next few years. Then, in 1952, John was preparing to ship out to serve in the Korean War as a member of the Navy Reserve. But before he left, he gave Bernadette a ring.

“It was a smart move,” he said.

John was discharged two years later, in 1954, and married Bernadette that August, on her 21st birthday, at St. Ambrose Church in Irondequoit.

The young couple lived many more years in Irondequoit, where they raised their son Robert and two foster children, before moving to Webster in 1977. They joined the Knights of Columbus and Holy Trinity Church. John served as an usher, and Bernadette sang in the choir, also participating in two other German choirs, often traveling to Europe for performances.

The Steblers had to sell their Webster home recently, and both now live at St. Ann’s Community at Cherry Ridge. They live in separate buildings, but John makes a point to visit his wife every day. They celebrated their anniversary with a Mass at Cherry Ridge on Aug. 24, and another at Holy Trinity on Aug. 28.

I asked them if they could share any of their secrets for a long marriage.

“I never listen to him,” Bernadette immediately offered. “If he’s gonna tell me something important, I know he’ll tell me again. So I don’t listen. Because he never stops talking.”

“We’re old-fashioned married, for life,” John added. … “We still don’t agree on anything. I want my say but I have to admit … these darn women, they seem to know the right thing. So I like to have my say but I have to admit, she was right.”

Perhaps that, right there, is the best advice for a long marriage.

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(posted 9/7/2024)

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Happy (your name here) Day!

27 Aug

A few weeks ago I posted a blog about how I happened upon a fun group of people at The Coach celebrating Helen Miller Day. It got me to thinking about what other “days” have been named in honor of people.

The Village and Town both hand out these proclamations fairly regularly, and I asked my friends there to look back into their records to see who else has been recognized recently. Many thanks to Webster Village Clerk Heather Halstead and Webster Town Clerk Danene Marr for doing that for me. Following are some examples I pulled from their lists.

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The first time I really became familiar with this practice was back on Nov. 17, 2017, when the Village of Webster proclaimed that day to be Carol Klem Day.

Carol was a well-known face and well-loved personality in the Village of Webster before she passed in 2018. For more than ten years, Carol penned the Village Focus column in the Webster Herald, and was basically the village’s biggest cheerleader. She was the eyes and ears of Webster and her name became synonymous with all things good about the Village of Webster. I was honored to attend her proclamation ceremony.

Several years earlier, the Village of Webster proclaimed March 26, 2009 to be Patti Cataldi Day. Before her current term as councilwoman for the Town of Webster, Patti served in many capacities for the Village of Webster, including as a trustee, director of the Business Improvement District, Planning Board member, and several others.

There have been many instances when the Village didn’t name an actual day in honor of someone, but just sang their praises and thanked them for their contributions to our community. One of those times was Oct. 28, 2021, when the Village recognized John Bucci, owner of The Music Store, on the occasion of his retirement after 32 years in the business.

And, just a few months later, on Dec. 9, 2021, Danny and Jessica Barry and their beloved corner pub, Barry’s Old School Irish, were recognized on the occasion of the pub’s 10th anniversary,.

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As I mentioned, the Town of Webster also hands out these proclamations on a semi-regular basis. Here are a few of their honorees:

Feb. 19, 2021: Caleb Hoag, Savage Kitchen Day. Caleb Hoag owned Savage Chef, at 5 East Main St. in the village, before closing a few years ago. In addition to running a successful meal-delivery business, Caleb also would donate hundreds of meals every week to various community groups, and made financial contributions to World Central Kitchen and Feeding America.

May 20, 2021: Bella’s Bumbas Day. Run by Webster residents Marty Parzynski and Rebecca Orr, Bella’s Bumbas builds miniature wheelchairs for children with a wide variety of mobility issues. To date, they’ve shipped 2,650 chairs to children in 66 countries, charging the parents only for shipping.

April 22, 2022: Charles Sexton Day. Charles Sexton was Webster’s first Recreation Director, and the first African-American Recreation Director in New York State. During his 34-year career with the department, he introduced the town’s first programs for senior citizens and launched the summer youth camps. He was also instrumental in establishing what was once known as North Ponds Park, renamed Charles Sexton Park in 2022 in his honor.

Sept. 1, 2022: Ruth Hilfiker Day. A long time resident of Penfield and Webster, Ruth worked for more than 20 years in the Penfield School District. On Wednesday Aug., 31, 2022, Supervisor Flaherty was invited to her 102nd birthday party, and at the next Town Board meeting, named a day in her honor.

So there you go. Several more holidays you can celebrate, if you like, and raise a toast to these people who have made a difference in our community.

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(posted 8/27/2024)

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Refurbished Shoemaker Rd. bus stop a reminder of school days past

20 Aug

Remember the good ol’ days when every morning before school all of the neighbor kids would gather in front of one neighbor’s home to wait for the bus? It was like bonus friend time, a chance to talk and laugh, compare lunches, maybe even put the finishing touches on last night’s homework.

Well, that doesn’t happen anymore. These days it’s more common for the bus to stop in front of each child’s home individually, even if they live very close to one another. In one Webster neighborhood, however, the memory of those days is not lost forever, thanks to the efforts of Blaise Midnight.

Blaise lives at 950 Shoemaker Rd., almost exactly halfway between the road’s west end at Van Alstyne Rd. and east end at Holt Rd. He remembers that back in the early ’60’s, when he and his brothers were just starting school, there were still orchards across the street, and a lot fewer houses than there are now. But there were still plenty of kids in the neighborhood, and on school mornings, 15 or more of them would gather in front of his house, all waiting for school buses to take them to Thomas High School, St. Rita School or Klem North Elementary.

“We’d all congregate here and mess around in the morning play a game or something until the bus came,” Blaise remembered. But his house — and therefore the bus stop — is at the end of a very long driveway, so when it was raining, the kids didn’t have any protection from the weather. So around 1962, Blaise’s father Gene built what would become the Shoemaker Rd. bus stop, complete with a bench and generous overhang.

That simple shelter would serve the school children of Shoemaker Rd. for many years, seeing them off to kindergarten, seeing them graduate from high school. But eventually, as the schools changed their busing policies, the Shoemaker Rd. bus stop wasn’t needed as much, and began to fall into disrepair, despite occasional upgrades.

Blaise said,

Originally, it was brown inside, and I painted it green years ago. Over the years my father had put roof on top of roof, on top of roof. It was crooked and leaning and it looked pretty shabby. My wife said, “Just rip it down — it looks like an eyesore.”

Then we happened to run into (our neighbor) Mrs. Dugan in the store one day, and told her we were thinking about tearing it down. She said, “What? You can’t tear it down! It’s a landmark. All of our kids have stayed there.”

So last September, Blaise took it upon himself to refurbish the old bus stop … much to his wife’s surprise.

“My wife was out of town for about a month so I redid the whole outside,” he said. “I just decided to do it and surprise her when she came home.” Fortunately, Blaise reports, “she loves it now.”

It’s possible the Shoemaker Rd. bus stop will never be used by school kids again. For the time being, though, Blaise uses it as a landmark to help direct people to his driveway (“there’s a bus stop out front”). He’s thinking about maybe, somewhere inside, inscribing the names of all the kids who used the stop as shelter through the years.

After all, they might be older now, but many of them still live on the street and remember it fondly.

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(posted 8/20/2024)

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Happy Helen Miller Day!

9 Aug

There was a local holiday — of sorts — celebrated last Thursday Aug. 1. It was Helen Miller Day, and even though it’s an annual event, you’re forgiven if it passed you by unnoticed. I wouldn’t have even known about it myself had I not happened upon the celebration that evening at Coach Sports Bar in the village.

There, gathered mostly in a far corner of the Coach patio, was a boisterous crowd of 30, all friends or family members of the late Helen Miller, who passed away in 2012. They come together every year on the first day of August to laugh, share stories, raise a pint and remember a lady who was a true friend to Webster.

Helen Miller was a long-time Webster resident and very involved in her community. Among other organizations, she belonged to the Iroquois Club, Webster Democratic Party, the Women’s Club of Webster, the Webster Softball League and two golf leagues.

But Helen was also an artist, perhaps best known for works of art which still grace our daily lives here in Webster, including the mural and stained glass windows in the Community Meeting Hall, and more stained glass at the Webster Volunteer Fire Department and Webster Arboretum.

Helen loved Webster so much and was such an important part of our community that in 2009, then-Mayor Jake Swingly proclaimed August 1 to be Helen Miller Day in the Village of Webster. And so it is that every year since 2012, when Helen passed away, her friends and family come together every August 1 to celebrate Helen Miller Day.

Her daughter Diane said the annual event is a celebration “of Mom’s love of people and life.” After all, according to her obituary,

Helen looked for any excuse to get everyone together to have a party. Thank you for teaching us to love with all our hearts, to laugh often to turn the negative to a positive, to enjoy every minute and share it all with family and friends. … Unforgettable is her positive attitude and ability to “Love You More.”

Helen Miller clearly had a kind spirit and a zest for life, setting an example for us all. And you know that if she’s looking down on these annual festivities, she’s smiling and laughing along with everyone else, and her heart is full.

And rest assured, on August 1, 2025, you’ll find me at the Coach, raising a glass to Helen Miller.

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(posted 8/9/2024)

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WHS alumni will gather for annual dinner

31 Jul

Alumni of the old Webster High School (now Spry Middle School) will be gathering in a few weeks to share stories, get reacquainted with classmates and remember lost friends, when the Webster High School Alumni Committee hosts its alumni dinner.

The dinner, hosted this year by the Webster Golf Club on Sunday Aug. 11, is held annually for WHS graduates from 1949 through 1962, when the last class graduated from the old high school building on South Ave. More than 60 alumni (and their guests) attended last year’s dinner, and organizers hope that at least as many will be able to make it this time.

The program will begin with greetings from the Alumni Committee president Linda Briggs Auer ’59 and vice president Jude Beh Lancy ’59, followed by dinner, a short business meeting, a 50/50 raffle and a centerpiece raffle. Class members from this year’s “honor years” — 1944, 1949, 1954 and 1959 — will receive special recognition. And of course, the evening concludes with a recitation of the Alma Mater.

This is always a wonderful event filled with friendship and memories.

Many thanks to Kittelberger Florist for donating the centerpieces and to Lala of Webster and The Village Quilt Shoppe for providing raffle prizes.

Linda Auer and Jude Lancy welcome alumni at last year’s dinner
A few scenes from last year

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(posted 7/31/2024)

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Heroes, and more heroes, will play at Miracle Field on Saturday

18 Jul

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Combine baseball, Miracle Field, and first responders, and whaddya get? An incredibly fun and inspirational day for the whole family.

It’s the fourth annual Heroes Helping Heroes Day at Challenger Miracle Field. This coming Saturday July 20, local first responders will spend the day at Miracle Field, playing with and against some of our amazing Challenger athletes. In addition to the entertaining baseball games, and the chance to meet some local first responders and get a close-up look at some of their equipment, there’ll be food, carnival games, a dunk tank, obstacle course and lots more.

The event is scheduled from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. at the field, 1000 Ridge Rd., Webster.

The day will start with a tribute to local heroes followed by baseball games. The Seneca Park ZooMobile will be onsite with animals and families can enjoy a dunk tank, inflatable games, and food throughout the event. A variety of special needs agencies and providers will also be there. 

This is a great morning of safe family fun. There’s no charge, and there’s plenty of parking. To find out more, visit www.rochestermiraclefield.org.  

If you’ve got about a half hour to spare, consider clicking through to this story aired by WROC-TV about Miracle Field, filmed at that year’s Heroes Helping Heroes Day. It’s really inspirational.

About Challenger Miracle Field of Greater Rochester  

Challenger Miracle Field of Greater Rochester provides people with developmental, physical or intellectual disabilities a barrier free, safe, accessible place to experience the health benefits and joy of play through baseball, other team sports, and adaptive recreational equipment.

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(posted 7/18/2024)

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Make lasagna. Share the love.

28 Jun

Now here’s a local nonprofit group that I’ve been meaning to highlight for quite a while now, because they’re doing great things for our community by doing something very simple: baking.

It’s called Lasagna Love, and its mission is simple: to feed families, spread kindness, and strengthen communities by providing food for neighbors in need. Their efforts not only address the incredible rise in food insecurity among families, but also provide a simple act of love and kindness.

Specifically, of course, the food is lasagna, which we can all agree is a meal that always warms the soul. The way it all works is this: a family signs up to receive a lasagna, sharing their name, contact information, total members of the family needing a meal, and any dietary restrictions. The family is then matched with a local lasagna chef, who prepares the lasagna and coordinates directly with the family to arrange delivery.

Local Coordinator Joanne Nania explained,

It was started by one mom in San Diego in March 2020. Right in the beginning of the pandemic, Rhiannon Menn started to see her neighbors begin freaking out about all the shutdowns and she wanted to help. She didn’t know how to do anything BIG but she knew she could make good lasagna. So she made 6 lasagnas and with her toddler in tow, went out and delivered to her neighbors.  Her girlfriends found out about it and wanted to help, too.  

By the spring, she had been written up in Women’s Day and soon after was featured on GMA.  By the end of the summer, she had 3000 chefs in place.  Today there are 56000 chefs in place over 3 countries (US, Canada and Australia).

Many Webster residents are already actively participating, and there are 90 chefs across our five-county area. Most sign up to cook either weekly or monthly. But more volunteer chefs are needed.

If you love to bake and have been looking for a way you and your family can volunteer in our community, this is the perfect answer. It’s easy to start. Just sign up on lasagnalove.org, and Joanne will get in touch with you to share some tips and give you any help you need. You’ll get matched with families that live near you, cook a lasagna (or two, or three!) and make a contactless drop-off to your family. Then celebrate that you’ve done a good thing!

If food is your love language, Lasagna Love is a wonderful, flexible way to support your neighbors.

To sign up, or just get more information about this great organization and the impact they’re making, visit the Lasagna Love website or Facebook page.

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(posted 6/28/2024)

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Tale of the traveling pink poncho

21 Jun

Here’s a somewhat sad — but inspirational — story about four good friends, all State Rd. Elementary School teachers, and the kindness and unwavering support they’ve shown each other through some of life’s darkest times.

Our story begins last August, just before school started, when Lisa Babineau, a psychologist at State Rd. Elementary School, was diagnosed with breast cancer. She began her 4-week course of radiation at the Pluta Cancer Center in September.

Now, they have something really neat at Pluta, called the “Poncho Project.” At the very beginning of their course of radiation, every breast cancer patient is given a bright pink fleece poncho instead of a standard-issue hospital gown. The poncho serves two purposes: to keep the patient warm and comfortable and reduce the embarrassment often caused by the ill-fitting and revealing hospital gowns.

Each poncho is made by a volunteer and comes with a tag which reads,

This poncho was designed by one of Dr. Marilyn Ling’s patients who felt the standard-issue hospital gown was a poor choice for women undergoing daily radiation treatments. We hope that you will use this poncho as a daily reminder that you have warmth and support enveloping you.

Lisa, of course, wore it every day while she was undergoing treatment.

“I think it’s really comfortable, and it feels like a hug,” she said. “They didn’t want women feel like they have to get in a gown every day of radiation, so you get to wear this poncho, and you feel the support and love of all the women who have come before you.”

As it so happened, some months earlier, State Rd. 5th grade teacher Sandy Pray was also diagnosed with cancer. Hers was so invasive, however, that her treatment began with surgery and chemotherapy. She was going to the Lipson Cancer Institute, which doesn’t hand out ponchos to its patients. No worries, however. By the time Sandy had completed the first steps of her treatment, Lisa was done with her radiation. She handed the warm and wonderful poncho over to her good friend Sandy, who used it through her seven weeks of radiation.

It would be great if our story ended there, but it did not. During Sandy’s course of treatment, Pat Sweetland, a regular and well-beloved State Rd. Elementary School substitute, was also diagnosed with breast cancer.

Sandy remembered that Pat had messaged her to tell her what was going on. “(Pat) said, ‘We’re in a club that nobody wants to be in.'”

By now, all of the State Rd. friends had been supporting each other for so long that Pat knew in the back of her mind that she’d be inheriting the poncho. She remembers the day Sandy brought it to Plank Rd. North, where she was substituting.

“(The secretary) brought it right down to me,” Pat remembered. “She said ‘Open it up, we want to see what’s in it.’ … I said, ‘What is this?’ And then I realized.” It came with a sweet note from Sandy, which read, “We’re passing on the love that we shared.”

Pat Sweetland began her 4-week course of radiation in January. When she was done, she returned the poncho to Lisa Babineau for safekeeping, hoping it would never again see the light of day.

If would be great if our story ended there, but it did not.

“I thought, wouldn’t it be great if I’m the end of the chain,” Pat said. “But I know this is going to somebody, and that’s kind of depressing. But wonderful.”

She was right. This past March — exactly one year from the day that Sandy Pray was diagnosed with a rare cancer — Patti Feeley, a retired 4th grade State Rd. Elementary teacher, was diagnosed with the exact same cancer.

“I went to visit Lisa one day,” Patti said. “She went into the closet and came out with a bag, and said, here’s your poncho.” Patti began her radiation treatments this week.

It’s hard to believe that four teachers who work in the same school could all be diagnosed with breast cancer within one year. But it’s been a real blessing that these friends have been able to support each other in such a meaningful way.

Patti said, “The teachers just circle the wagons … current teachers and lot of the retired teachers that we’ve known for years. Your mailbox is just overflowing with notes and cards, (saying) you’ve got this. There’s nothing like our camaraderie.”

“It’s a club nobody wants to belong to,” she continued. “But if you have to belong to it, it’s a good thing to have each other.”

“There’s nothing like teacher love.”

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(posted 6/18/2024)

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