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Carolyn Montanaro named Webster Chamber Business Person of the Year

23 Mar
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Carolyn Montanaro of Neubert Financial Services accepts the Webster Chamber of Commerce’s 2017 Business Person of the Year award from Chamber Board Chair Joe Vitello. (Provided photo) 

Note: I misspelled Carolyn’s name in an earlier version of this blog. Sorry!

Congratulations to Carolyn Montanaro, from Neubert Financial Services, who was recently named 2017 Business Person of the Year by the Webster Chamber of Commerce.

The announcement was made at the Chamber’s monthly breakfast meeting, and was presented by Barry Howard, President/CEO of the Webster Chamber of Commerce and Joe Vitello, Chair of the Chamber Board of Directors.

The press release I received from the Chamber gave several reasons for Montanaro’s selection:

This year’s honoree is a ‘behind the scenes’ force in her company’s success, a mother, a philanthropist with human and financial resources, an active Chamber committee chair, a daughter and a wife who not only talks about the importance of family, church, school and community, she lives it every day.

She is a committed chamber member whose involvement has furthered the Chamber’s mission and its ongoing successes in the Webster community.

Carolyn and Neubert Financial Services have been very active in the Chamber since they became members more than a decade ago. As the company’s Director of Administration when her Dad formed the company in 2005, Carolyn has been a quiet influence that has helped the company grow and has helped the Chamber grow as well.

Mrs. Montanaro has been on the Membership Services Committee for many years and is currently serving as co-chair of that committee. Her passion about the Chamber is real and she never misses a chance to remind Chamber members that participation in the Chamber via committee work and attending events and breakfast has helped their business grow and has forged lifelong relationships with fellow Chamber members.

The “Business Person of the Year” is someone recognized as having set a standard of accomplishment in both business and the community. Nominations are from the Chamber’s business members who have made a significant impact on the role of business in the community. The nominee must be a member of the Chamber for at least 18 months; must be an active member who is always willing to go above and beyond, a leader that motivates others; and they must have a level of community participation by contributing resources in the form of time, talent, money, etc. to the community via projects, clubs, churches, and not-for-profits.

The Webster Chamber of Commerce’s annual Business Person of the Year honor is awarded to someone recognized as having set a standard of accomplishment in both business and the community.  The Chamber Board of Directors received several nominations this year in addition to Montanaro.

Montanaro was presented an engraved plaque which read, “2017 Business Person of the Year presented to Carolyn Montanaro in recognition of your outstanding contributions to the Chamber and your commitment to the Webster community.”

Neubert Financial Services is located at 599 Ridge Road in Webster.

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An invitation to my Tour de Parks presentation — AGAIN

19 Mar

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Some of you have been following the trials and tribulations of the presentation I’m planning to make for the Adirondack Club about my Tour de Parks adventure.

Basically it was originally scheduled for Wednesday March 8. Then we had the windstorm. It was rescheduled for the following Tuesday. Then we had a snowstorm. So it was rescheduled AGAIN for this coming Tuesday March 21.

Barring another natural calamity, third time should be the charm.

So I would like to invite everyone again to attend the free presentation. To tell you more about it, here’s (most of) the original invitation blog I posted a few weeks ago.

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Remember how I went out and explored 100 parks last year? I called it my 2016 Tour de Parks Challenge, and it pretty much consumed my life. I wrote about it several times in my East Extra column (the most recent one is here) and probably touched on it a few times here in my blog as well.

Well, you’re going to have to hear about it one more time.

Shortly after I began my quest last year, I realized exactly how much of a challenge I had shouldered. I actually considered letting it fade off unnoticed. But then I got an email from the Genesee Valley Chapter of the Adirondack Mountain Club, inviting me to be the featured speaker at one of their meetings.

I was stuck.

That meeting has finally arrived, and I would like to invite all of my readers to attend, if you’re at all interested in hearing about my adventures.

The event takes place on Tuesday March 21, beginning at 7:30 p.m. in the Eisenhart Auditorium of the Rochester Museum and Science Center, 657 East Ave.

It should be interesting, I hope. I’m working up a fancy-pants display board with pins showing all the parks I visited, and a PowerPoint presentation highlighting some of the funny, surprising, beautiful and disappointing things I saw and learned. And yes, I’ll even tell everyone which one was my favorite. Sort of. The whole shebang should only be about 45 minutes.

Please join me. There’s no admission charge. Maybe you could grab dinner beforehand and make it a night out.

And if you’d like to read up on all the parks I visited, here’s a link to the 2016 Tour de Parks blog I maintained through it all.

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St. Patrick’s Day news from the pub and the library

17 Mar
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Barry’s Old School Irish, 2 West Main Street, Webster. Officially one of the best Irish pubs in the country.

In honor of today being St. Patrick’s Day, this little bit of news that many of us already know. Barry’s Old School Irish, at 2 West Main Street in the village of Webster, is officially one of the best Irish pubs in the country.

In a recent ranking published by Foursquare City, Barry’s came in at #18 on a list of the best Irish pubs in America.

It’s big news for the pub, drawing stories from Channel 10, Channel 13, and the Democrat and Chronicle.

This latest achievement follows in the footsteps of another survey released by Yelp.com several days ago, in which Barry’s Old School Irish landed at #45 in a list of the top 50 pubs in the United States for celebrating St. Patrick’s Day.

The pub has been celebrating the holiday all week (when they didn’t have to close for the snow), and the fun continues today with a special lunch, traditional Irish music jam session with the Fox Hunters from 3 to 7 p.m., corned beef and cabbage dinner, Irish dancers at 7 p.m., music by Gavin Barry from 7 to 10 p.m., a bagpiper at 9 p.m., a free Tullamore Dew Irish whiskey toast at 9:30 p.m., and Guinness giveaways all day.

Local Irish duo Barry’s Crossing features Sarah King and Sean Rosenberry. (Provided photo)

Local Irish duo Barry’s Crossing closes the night with their annual Last Man Standing show from 10 p.m. to 1 a.m.

Sláinte!

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And another one bites the dust.

Thanks to this past week’s wicked weather, the Webster Public Library’s Community Volunteer Fair was rescheduled from last Wednesday and will now be held on Wednesday March 29 from 3:30 to 6:30 p.m.

Residents can connect with the following organizations that have volunteer opportunities available in the Webster community:

AutismUp, Challenger Miracle Field, Friends of the Webster Public Library, Friends of Webster Trails, Heritage Christian Services, Hill Haven Nursing and Rehab, Hope Ministry, Maplewood Nursing Home, Never Say Never Foundation, WASP Webster Association of Senior Program Supporters, Webster Arboretum, Webster Central PTSA, Webster Comfort Care Home, Webster Community Chest, Webster Museum and Historical Society.

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A friendly reminder

15 Mar

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Please remember to clear a path to your fire hydrant. If the unthinkable should happen, you and your neighbors will be grateful that you saved precious minutes for the firefighters.

Rochester photographers, time to strut your stuff

13 Mar
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Birds on the bay by Joe Altieri.

One of my readers recently brought my attention to a special Democrat and Chronicle photography edition coming up soon, for which they are soliciting submissions. I know of several of you right off the top of my head who should submit your work.

It’s the fourth annual Community Photo Issue, which will be published later this spring. Editors are looking for “photos depicting your favorite people, places, things, activities or events in our region.” Basically, what it is that makes Rochester special.

Submissions are due by May 31. Click here to learn more and check out some of the best photos submitted last year.

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Go blue for Jack on Monday

24 Feb

 

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All of my school district colleagues are being encouraged to Go Blue for Jack on Monday February 27, and I wanted to pass along that challenge to everyone else as well.

Jack James Heiligman would have celebrated his 4th birthday this Sunday. I first learned that from my friends at Schlegel Road Elementary School, where Jack would have eventually attended school.

Jack passed last October in a tragic accident, but his irrepressible spirit lives on through the Jack Foundation, established in his memory.

In honor of Jack’s birthday, and to continue to spread the positive message championed by the Jack Foundation, all of us in the Webster Schools will be wearing blue on Monday. Please join us and help spread the word to your work colleagues to do so as well!

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Webster PTSA presents program on Internet safety

20 Feb

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The Webster Central PTSA will be sponsoring a program in March that every parent should consider attending.

Jesse Weinberger, a nationally recognized speaker about Internet safety, will present a program called “Internet Safety for Parents” on Wednesday March 1 from 7 to 9 pm in the Willink Middle School cafetorium.

Jesse will share with Webster parents the ways in which kids are at risk on their personal devices, and concrete steps we can take to minimize those risks. Learn the affects of exposure to adult content on children, the facts on cyber-bullying and how to avoid it, the truth about sexting and how predators engage with children online. Participants will leave with action steps to keep kids safer.

This FREE presentation is appropriate for an adult-only audience, as the content will be direct and specific. Please make arrangements for child care. The presentation cannot be recorded, so make sure you can see it in person.

Click here for more information and if you have any questions, email CentralPTSA@websterptsa.org. 

Willink Middle School is located at 900 Publisher’s Parkway, Webster.

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Get your team together for the annual SEPTA bowling tournament

18 Feb

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Dust off those bowling balls and shoes and save the date for an enjoyable afternoon of bowling, all for a great cause!

On Sunday, April 9, Webster’s Special Education Parent-Teacher Association (SEPTA) will hold its annual bowling fundraiser to raise scholarship funds for graduating Webster Schroeder and Webster Thomas High School seniors who are part of the district’s special education family.

Join Webster’s special education faculty and staff, students, parents, and Webster families from 3 to 5:30 p.m. at AMF Empire Lanes in Webster on Sunday, April 9. Your donation of $30 includes two hours of bowling, shoe and equipment rental, a t-shirt, pizza, soft drinks, and even free raffle tickets for prizes.

We are looking for teams to show off their hidden talents of striking and sparing! Dress in a theme to win awesome prizes (past themes have included: The 50’s, Ballerinas, Outer Space, Nerds and The Rainforest).

For more information and/or to reserve a spot for your team, contact Webster Thomas High School special education teacher Dina Malboeuf at Dina_Malboeuf@webstercsd.org.

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More about Jim Lockwood, “Webster’s Santa”

24 Dec

When I sat down with Jim and Jeannette Lockwood last week in the comfortable living room of their Lake Road home, I knew it was going to be an enjoyable conversation. After all, I had met Jim several times previously, and knew he was a very friendly fellow.

The first time was a year ago, when he was sitting in the gazebo at Towne Center (Target Plaza). I had gone by to take some photos for my blog, and started up a conversation with Santa. I discovered that Jim was a Webster resident and a regular on the Webster Santa scene, including White Christmas in the Village. I decided right then and there that I wanted to devote a story — or at least a blog — to him and his experiences as Santa.

Fast forward one year. I started thinking about what I should write for my holiday week column, which just so happens would land squarely on Christmas Day. The previous year’s conversation with Jim came to mind. It was the perfect answer.

So I got Jim’s phone number from the village, and called him up one day. He was more than happy to meet with me, and we arranged to meet the following Wednesday at Barry’s Old School Irish in the village.

You might remember that Wednesday. It snowed. A lot. There was so much snow that even Santa shouldn’t have been be driving (at least not without Rudolph). So I called Jim to reschedule for the next Monday.

The next Monday I was on the couch all day with a bad back. I called Jim again. It looked like I might never get to meet Santa.

Third time’s the charm, as they say. Later that week the weather was good and my back was behaving, and I finally was able to make my interview with Santa.

We talked for more than an hour. It was fascinating to hear his stories and the knowledge he has gained in his 20 years of playing Santa. I learned so much more than I could have ever stuffed into my 600-word column (as it is, I ran long with the hopes my editors wouldn’t cut it down too much). I had to remove so much cool information to make it an acceptable length. I think it’s still a pretty interesting column, but I wish I could have included so much more.

And so that’s what I’m doing here.

If you’re interested, here are the more complete answers Santa Jim gave to my questions, including ones I touched on in the column, and several others I didn’t have room for.

How does someone who needs a Santa go about contacting and booking one?

Jim is listed on two different online agencies, Gigmaster and Gig Salad. Most first-time bookings come through those two sites. “I’ve had to turn down 50, 60 people already,” he told me. “My weekends are booked. Everybody wants a Santa on a weekend.” On the day of my interview, he had three or four emails waiting for responses, and he got another call while I was there.

When do you first put on the Santa suit?

His first event every year is the second Saturday in November, when he arrives at the Eastview Mall in a limousine.

“(The organizer) gets hundreds of kids in front of the mall. I don’t know where they come from. A limousine picks me up, they drive me around to the front. The limousine guy talks to the kids for a second, he opens the door and I greet all the children. Inside the mall doors is the Fairport Marching Band. We parade through the entire mall. It’s like ten miles. Inviting al the children to join us. It’s like the Pied Piper.”

How many events does Jeannette attend with him as Mrs. Claus?

“As little as possible,” she said. “I’m not like him; I’m not a forward person. It’s overwhelming to me.” Two events Jeannette always accompanies Jim to are the Webster’s White Christmas in the Village Offices and the Webster Volunteer Firemen’s Christmas Party the next day. Jim added, “They want to keep the same Santa to do both because a lot of the same children will go to both functions. So the fire department and the village work together to have the same Santa.”

Is the beard real?

Yes. He’ll shave it off immediately following his last event on the 27th, start growing it again in March, and start bleaching in September.

Do a lot of kids pull on the beard?

No, but they like to run their fingers through it. It’s the older women who yank on it. They say “I’ve always wanted to do that.”

How many children cry?

Some, but not as many as you might think. “There’s an age group.” For children ages 1 to 3, he says, “Chances are about 50/50. The 2-year olds are gonna cry.”

Do kids ever come up to you when you’re not in your suit and ask if you’re Santa?

Yes, but not a lot.

“If a child comes up to me and says, ‘Are you Santa?’, I’ll look at him and say, ‘No, I’m not Santa, but I heard he’s a great guy,’ or ‘Santa’s my brother.’”

“When I go out I don’t dress as Santa. I think Santa belongs in red suit in the appropriate places….I will not admit to anybody that I’m Santa when I’m not in a suit. Even when you’re in the suit you never admit to being Santa. You portray Santa. You’re not Santa.”

What do kids ask for?

“The most common one is anything from the Frozen movie. They’re all wearing the costume, they come up to me, they have the little dresses. They know all the characters’ names.”

For the boys, “Little tots want tractors and they want trains and planes and everything. When they get into the 7 and 8 and 9 years old all of a sudden it’s iPhones, Ipads, smartphones, stuff they see their mom and dad use. They don’t even know what it is but they’re asking for it.”

“A good percentage just freeze up and they can’t remember what they want.”

“I’ve had some very serious, sad incidents where children have come up and (ask), ‘Can you bring Daddy home he’s in prison. You go to school to learn what to say. And that would be, ‘You know, he’s good at making toys, and he can bring stuff like toys and puppies, but there’s some things Santa can’t do. But I’ll pray with you that Daddy’s safe.”

“I get a lot of them that mommy’s sick, she’s got cancer, she’s in the hospital. I’ll pray with them right there.”

“There was a little guy about three years ago, he could hardly talk and I put him up on my knee. …I said to him, what would you like for Christmas? And he said ‘dirt.’ Just as plain as that, he wanted dirt. I looked at his mother and she says, ‘He wants dirt. He’s used to playing outside in the summertime with his cars and his trucks in dirt.’ He wanted Santa to bring him dirt so he could play inside.”

Do any kids tell you you’re not real?

“I’ve had very few children tell me there is no Santa. I’m not saying they’re believers, but nobody is going to admit there’s no Santa.”

“When children get to be about 6 or 7 or 8 years old, they’re starting to really question Santa; you might get another year or two out of them because they’re afraid to admit that Santa doesn’t exist because they’re not going to get anything. When they get to be about 9 or 10 years old they know, but they’re not going to admit it, because they’re going to get a gift from Mom or Dad but, they’re going to get one from Santa too.”

“So it’s a game that’s played.”

Tell me more about the “Santa School”

“Santa School” is officially called the Charles W. Howard Santa Claus School. It’s in Midland, Mich., but actually began in 1937 on Charlie Howard’s farm in Albion, NY. “If you want to be a Santa this is where you go,” Jim said. It’s where “you learn how to be Santa.”

The three-week course is held every summer, and they only take 80 students, a mix of brand new and experienced Santas.

They teach you “how to transform yourself from Joe Blow into Santa Claus. You learn how to dress head to toe, apply makeup, rosy cheeks. if you have a real beard they have a hairdresser there to show you all the products that you use. If you’re a ‘traditional’ bearded Santas, they have people there who specialize in wigs, teach you how to comb out a wig.
Make you be the best Santa that you can be

“Then they start on how you talk to children, how can you identify children from ten feet away. How you know what you hope to expect. When you’re talking to one child, you’re kinda of eyeballing the next one.”

“Do they have limitations? You try to identify which ones. You try to guess their age. That’s pretty easy to do — just ask them what grade they’re in. If they’re not school age yet, you say ‘Wow, when was your last birthday?’ or ‘Didn’t you just have birthday?’ Then they’ll say, ‘Oh yes, I’m TWO now!’”

“There’s little things that help you along talking to children.”

“We do an interview with a radio personality like you’re on the radio. He throws you some real tough questions sometimes. Helps you learn to act on your feet.”

They teach you how to present yourself in a parade. Santa doesn’t do the Di wave. Like when I’m on the firetruck (at the Webster parade), there’s thousands of kids. You try to pick out, point your finger at two or three kids, try to get their attention, and they’re saying ‘Wow, Santa sees me, he knows me.’ It just brings a personal contact with the children.”

“If you’re walking, you have to wave to both sides, be really active all the time, looking at children, look at both sides.”

They also have exercise classes.

“Most of us are old fat guys The clock is ticking, we know that. They want to keep Santa healthy. You gotta to see 80 fat old men, and they bring in this 22 year old girl in tights. ‘C’mon Santas, we’re going to exercise!’”

“Yeah, right.”

There’s also a lawyer there every year who “tells it like it is, how liable you are for all kinds of things. All somebody has to do is make an accusation and you are done.”

“You always wear white gloves. In every picture that Santa is in with a child on his knee.
one hand goes on your knee, and the other hand goes around the child or the lady or the gentleman and you’d better see the fingers on the other side of the picture.”

About his Santa suits (they’re called suits, not costumes):

“I have five suits.” The gold standard are the very expensive Charlie Howard suits, made of 80% wool, 20% rayon. “The suits are still manufactured to his specifications,” crimson red, and hand-sewn with a satin lining.

Wonder if you’ve seen Santa Jim out and about?

Here’s a sample of the places he does every year in addition to his Webster village events:

Gander Mountain, Eastview Mall (he shares this job with four other Santas), Wegmans (441 and 250), Country Club of Rochester, Fabulous Flowers, Ridgemont Country Club, Baywinde, Westside Nursing Home in Greece, Indian Landing School, The Landing at Brighton
Rochester Museum and Science Center, Gates Police Department, and St. Joseph’s homeless shelter and soup kitchen.

He also visits a lot of private parties. One this year was for a woman in Greece. “She’s had so many deaths in the family the last few months. She’s having a party for her family. She write me two letters yesterday, She’s so anxious for Santa to come bring some joy into the family’s life.”

What do you do in the off season?

Believe it or not, he makes Santa hats. Not like the ones you’ll find at the Dollar Store, but finely crafted, hand-sewn and hand-embroidered “casual” Santa hats for sale in the professional Santa marketplace

“I’ve sold over 400 hats to Santa and each hat goes from a range from $75 to $125 per hat.
Other Santas make beautiful belts, buckles, boots.”

It’s really a year-round commitment for Jim.

“The Santa season is one part of it, the other part of it will pick up around February or March. That’s when the serious Santas start thinking about next year. I’ve already got orders for hats for next year.

An Irish farewell to Grandpa Joe

9 Oct

Danny Barry, behind the bar, chats with some of the friends and family who filled the little pub.

Yesterday, Joseph B. Barry, Sr. was laid to rest at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery.  He was probably best known as long-time owner of Crescent Beach Restaurant in Greece. (Read his obituary here.) But to many of us in Webster, he was “Grandpa Joe,” who occasionally stopped by Barry’s Old School Irish in the village to chat with the patrons and make sure his grandson Danny Barry was running the place properly.

I had the pleasure of meeting Grandpa Joe a few times, but never got to know him very well.  It was obvious, however, how much he was adored and respected.  I always enjoyed watching people interact with him. It was like he was holding court, with people gathered around him to absorb his wisdom.

That respect was ever more evident yesterday afternoon when family and friends gathered at Barry’s Old School Irish after the funeral for an honest-to-goodness Irish wake in honor of Grandpa Joe.

Correction. Family and FAMILY gathered, because when it comes to the Barrys, the whole town is considered family.

Stories were shared, hugs were freely given, much whiskey was poured and many taps were flowing.  And I never felt more proud and honored to be part of the Barry family.

In the obituary that ran in the Democrat and Chronicle on October 8, Joe’s grandson Mike is quoted,

(Crescent Beach) was just a building with windows and doors, but it was special because of how he made people feel when they walked in.

Anyone who has ever walked into Webster’s hometown Irish pub knows that Danny Barry has exactly the same approach. Grandpa Joe is most certainly at rest, confident that his legacy lives on within the welcoming walls of Barry’s Old School Irish.

Three of Joe Barry’s sons, (L-R) Chris, Mark and Hon. David (Mike) Barry, Sr., with Danny Barry.