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More happenings this week and weekend

11 Nov

This is kind of a catch-up blog today with a few events that are coming up fast (or happening right now) which I neglected to mention in my recent mailbag.

The first is a happy occasion for Lala of Webster at 38 East Main St. in the Village of Webster. This adorable gift shop is celebrating its 7th anniversary this week, and owner Lisa Schlonski has an extra special deal cooked up for the occasion.

All this week (through Saturday) she’s giving away a FREE piece of Katie Loxton bling (worth $22 or more) when you spend at least $25. Also, when you make a purchase this week you’ll be entered to win one of several surprise giveaway bags.

So pop in this week, start your Christmas shopping, get some bling for yourself, and wish Lisa congratulations on her anniversary. In today’s business climate, seven years is commendable.

In honor of Veterans Day this week, this Saturday Nov. 15, the Webster Museum will present a talk by Tom Pellett, focused on the Civil War, called “Honoring Veterans.”

As you know, the War between the States, which began in 1863, could have separated the North and South. President Abraham Lincoln had a different idea and in his famous two-minute-long Gettysburg Address, which he presented at the dedication of the National Cemetery at Gettysburg, he shared those thoughts.

Tom has extensive knowledge about Webster veterans who fought in the Civil War. He’ll tell stories about some of those veterans, who went off to fight for the ideal that all men are created equal.

The presentation will take place at the Webster Museum, 18 Lapham Park in the Village of Webster, on Saturday, Nov. 15 beginning at 2 p.m. Refreshments will be served and the museum is handicap-accessible. For more information, visit the museum’s website at webstermuseum.org.

There’s no cost and registration is not necessary.

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(posted 11/11/2025)

Webster community mailbag

9 Nov

First off, this reminder from the Webster Chamber of Commerce. Their monthly meeting is normally the last Friday of the month, but has been moved up because of Thanksgiving.

The November Webster Chamber Monthly Meeting will be held on Friday Nov. 21 from 7 to 8:30 a.m. at the Webster Golf Club, 440 Salt Rd. The meetings begin with social time, then a buffet breakfast, followed by an informative program — this month, representatives from the Webster Business Improvement District will be filling everyone in on the latest from the Village of Webster.

The monthly meetings are opportunities to network, meet new contacts, develop current business relationships, learn, and earn visibility for your business or organization. This is the largest monthly Chamber networking event in the Greater Rochester area, with 70-90 attendees. Bring a door prize for visibility and your business card to add your name to the door prize drawing.

Chamber members, guests, and visitors are welcome. Reservations are required. Click here to register

Here’s a quick look at what’s happening at the Webster Public Library this month:

  • This month’s community exchange is vases. Bring in some unused ones and swap them out for new-to-you ones.
  • The November Donation Station is for the Pirate Toy Fund. Donate new, unwrapped toys.
  • The library’s Holiday Book Sale has been scheduled for Dec. 2 through Dec. 27. It features an assortment of used books, videos, music CDs, audio books and jigsaw puzzles all with seasonal holiday themes. While supplies last.
  • This month’s extra special event is an Amerks Power Play on Monday, Nov. 24 from 6:30 to 7:30 p.m. The Moose will be visiting the library, accompanied by a player, who will read a story, show off his hockey equipment, and sign autographs. Attendees can also pose for pictures with the player and the Moose. All ages are welcome, and no registration is necessary.

For adults

  • Community Building CircleFriday, Nov. 14 from 2 to 3:30 p.m. Each circle focuses on a meaningful topic that is chosen by trained facilitators. There is never any pressure to speak, or to return, but our hope is that after experiencing a community building circle and the relationships that develop there, you’ll join us again as we build community together. Registration is required.

For teens and tweens

  • Make It Monday: Wooden Caramel ApplesMonday, Nov. 17 from 6 to 7 p.m. Grades 4 to 12 and adults are welcome. Registration is required.
  • Teen Library ClubWednesday, Nov. 19, 6:30 to 8 p.m. If you’re in grades 6 through 12 and like books, games, crafts, sharing your ideas, taking surveys, food, hanging out with your friends, and getting involved with your library and community, this club is for you. Registration is required.

For children and families

  • Geology Rocks Saturday, Nov. 15, 2 to 4 p.m. Meet local geologist Fred Haynes and learn about the unique glacial geology that shaped Western New York, as well as the land forms and sediments it left behind. Fred will be set up in the main library and ready to chat with anyone who stops by his table. He’ll have samples of local rocks, fossils, and sand for you to take home, also. You can also bring along any rocks/fossils for identification. All ages are welcome and no registration is required.

From the Webster Recreation Center

The next two Talks on Tuesday presentations look interesting and very Informative.

On Tuesday, Nov. 18, Jeff Taylor presents a travelogue highlighting European Christmas Markets. Christmas in Europe is a big deal, with markets that have been around for centuries. Highlights include holiday food, shopping, central squares, cathedrals and more in London, Amsterdam, Bruges, Luxembourg, Budapest, Vienna, Prague, Athens, Tirana, Ljubljana, Zagreb and Istanbul. Register for Activity# 346940-N

On Tuesday Nov. 25, Jessica Lepore and TJ Fogarty from GRAPE and NY Life Insurance Co. will present a program on Simplifying Required Minimum Deposits. Learn why it’s important to understand RMD’s and have a strategy to protect your retirement lifestyle. Register for Activity# 346940-O.

Both programs will be held from 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. The programs are free but registration is required.

Upcoming reminders

Tickets are now on sale for the Village of Webster’s annual Bourbon Bash, scheduled for Saturday, Nov. 22 from 6 to 9 p.m. at the Harmony House, 58 East Main St. Taste local and national bourbons along with food samplings from Village of Webster restaurants. Tickets are $35 plus an Eventbrite fee, and can be ordered here. This event usually sells out, so get your tickets soon. This is a 21+ event. Valid ID will be required.

The Country Gardeners of Webster will hold their annual Garden Club Holiday Sale on Saturday December 6 from 9 a.m. to noon at the Webster Recreation Center, 1350 Chiyoda Drive. This huge sale features fresh wreaths, arrangements, poinsettias, centerpieces and gifts that are created by hand by the club members. This is always a very popular event, so you want to get there early. Admission is free.

The Webster Arboretum will also be there with an information table and some large raffle baskets. Plus, their 2026 membership cards and new 2026 calendar will be available or purchase.

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(posted 11/9/2025)

An update on The Coach

2 Nov

I’ve been getting questions about The Coach lately; people are wondering if I’ve heard anything about how repairs are progressing and when it might reopen. Last week I finally had a chance to stop down there and chat with owner Fritz Sierk, who filled me in on how things are going.

It’s been almost eight months since the devastating St. Patrick’s Day fire that tore through The Coach. It started behind the bar, and while the building remained structurally sound, the heat, smoke and water damage meant that the whole place had to be gutted. It’s been a long process cleaning it out, removing the destroyed equipment and furnishings, and drawing up the new plans, and there were several hurdles along the way, but construction finally began in earnest about three weeks ago.

The interior of the bar is still pretty much stripped down to the beams and studs, which was kind of sad to see. And you can still see a lot of fire damage (including charred beams from the last time it burned, in 1969). But Fritz’s vision of what “The Coach 2.0” (as he called it) will be like brought it back to life for me.

For starters, the bar area will be two feet bigger to accommodate larger sinks. The bathrooms “are going to be huge,” Fritz said, expanding into the former “smoking hut” space. A new overhang on the back deck will accommodate smokers, keeping them mostly out of the weather. A second, smaller, fenced-in patio will be added on the east end of the building. And perhaps most exciting of all, Fritz will be installing two garage-door windows overlooking the patios — similar to the big window at the Mary Wee Pub across the street. The pool table and darts will be back, and all of the TVs, including the four big ones on the west wall which can be used individually or stitched together as a huge screen.

In the end it’s still going to be the same, familiar Coach that we all know and love. Just a little bit better.

“I still want The Coach to be The Coach,” Fritz said. “Even though it’s new, we tried to make it comfortable, we tried to make it not too fancy. There are plenty of fancy places around.”

“You know. It’s the Coach.”

If construction stays on schedule, Fritz hopes to be open by late January. If not then, then definitely by the first weekend of February — in time to watch the Bills in the Super Bowl.

And all that work you’re seeing being done to the sidewalk in the front of the building? Don’t worry, most of it was planned, in part due to the new patio and garage-door windows. So even though it kind of looks like a mini disaster, rest assured it’s all part of the big plan and we’ll have our beloved Coach back before you know it.

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(posted 11/2/2025)

Now open: two village businesses to help you look and feel better

30 Oct

Lovely You Aesthetics and Root Rituals Head Spa held their ribbon cutting ceremonies recently, officially joining the Village of Webster business scene.

Located at 82 North Ave., Lovely You Aesthetics offers a wide variety of services including bio repeels, chemical peels, micro needling, Botox, fillers, personal skin care evaluations, weight management and more. The location is a beautiful old two-story house built in 1914 which still holds much of its original charm including leaded glass, stained glass windows, and coffered ceilings. There are two treatment rooms downstairs, four treatment rooms upstairs, and two bathrooms.

Owner Carla Ann Scheiber held her grand opening and ribbon-cutting on Friday, Oct. 17, complete with a “happy-hour-style” open house with signature cocktails, finger foods, vendors, raffles and giveaways.

Root Rituals Head Spa’s ribbon-cutting ceremony took place on Saturday, Oct. 18. The spa is located at 28 East Main St., in the former R Salon storefront, and will specialize in scalp treatments and scalp care — a “head spa” in the Japanese tradition. Clients familiar with R Salon will find that Melissa has added some nice personal touches, including a small boutique area, an espresso machine, and a display of her own products — scalp oil, scalp scrub and scalp tonic.

About two dozen friends and family members attended the ceremony to support owner Melissa Diodato Linder as she officially opened her new business, and there was plenty of food and drink for everyone to enjoy.

Welcome to Webster, Carla and Melissa!

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(posted 10/30/2025)

Webster community mailbag

29 Oct

A few new things and a few reminders in today’s mailbag.

Calling the R.L. Thomas Class of 1970!

Your 55 year reunion is happening this Saturday, Nov. 1, and if you haven’t signed up yet, it’s not too late.

The reunion will take place at Finn Park on Maple Dr., from 2 to 11 p.m. p.m. Cost is $20 which includes a food truck ticket. Please bring an appetizer or dessert to share. To sign up, email rlt1970alumni@gmail.com.

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The Webster Association of Senior Program Supporters will host their 2025 indoor craft sale on Saturday Nov. 1 from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. at the Webster Recreation Center, 1350 Chiyoda Dr. They’re expecting more than 40 vendors.

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Spry Middle School students and staff will host their annual free spaghetti dinner for Webster veterans, active duty service members and their families on Thursday, Nov. 6 from 4 to 6:30 p.m. It will be served in Spry Middle School’s cafetorium, 119 South Avenue, and feature a complimentary meal of spaghetti, salad, bread, and dessert. Reservations are requested. Call Spry Middle School at (585) 216-0093. Click here for more information.

Tickets are now on sale for the Village of Webster’s annual Bourbon Bash, scheduled for Saturday, Nov. 22 from 6 to 9 p.m. at the Harmony House, 58 East Main St. Taste local and national bourbons along with food samplings from Village of Webster restaurants.

Tickets are $35 plus an Eventbrite fee, and can be ordered here. This event usually sells out, so get your tickets soon. This is a 21+ event. Valid ID will be required.

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The Friends of Webster Trails will host their annual Hot Cocoa Hike on Saturday Nov. 8 from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at Finn Park, 850 Maple Dr.

Kids and adults alike are welcome to this family-friendly hike. It’s a little over a mile long (start to finish) and will include a stop for hot cocoa. The trail will start at the right-hand side of the building by the kiosk. There will be lights along the way. This is not a guided event. You are responsible for finding your way to the hot cocoa and back by following the marked path.

Participants are asked to leave the parking lot between 7 and 8 p.m., to arrive at the hot cocoa stop by 8:30 p.m. Please leave your dog at home; you can bring them back to enjoy the trail another time. Please bring a flashlight and your own travel mug. This is a carry-in carry out event.

There’s no cost, but please register here so the Friends know how many people to expect.

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The Webster Arboretum will present a program called Bird Seed Ornaments: A Family Affair on Saturday, Nov. 8 at 9:30 a.m. at the Webster Recreation Center, 1350 Chiyoda Dr. Bring the family and join the members of the Arboretum to learn how to make “bird cookies,” the perfect little snack for the birds in your yard. They’re easy to make and fun to watch the birds enjoying them. Visit the Webster Arboretum website for more information.

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This note doesn’t relate directly to Webster but it’s kind of interesting. Apparently every year the members of the Rochester Amateur Radio Association participate in what they call their “Pumpkin Patrol” in support of the New York State Police. On Oct. 30 and 31 they monitor Thruway overpasses in Monroe County to prevent vandalism. The “hams” have been providing this service for more than 30 years and there have been no reports of any serious vandalism from overpasses to vehicles traveling on the Thruway since the Patrol began.

So keep an eye out for them and maybe give them a little beep to show your support.

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Here’s a quick follow-up from the recent Embrace Your Sisters Walk which I wrote about in August. It was held on Oct. 5 at Pittsford Sutherland High School and apparently was quite successful, raising a whopping $25,654, surpassing the organization’s $25,000 goal.

The funds will be added to the more than $700,000 which has already been distributed during the Embrace Your Sisters’ 19 years. People with breast cancer across our 13-county area have benefited from these funds, which paid outstanding living expenses. If you know someone who could benefit from the Embrace Your Sisters short-term emergency funds, please have them visit the website for more information.

Here’s something you want to put on your calendar for December:

The Country Gardeners of Webster will hold their annual Garden Club Holiday Sale on Saturday December 6 from 9 a.m. to noon at the Webster Recreation Center, 1350 Chiyoda Drive.

This huge sale features fresh wreaths, arrangements, poinsettias, centerpieces and gifts that are created by hand by the club members. This is always a very popular event, so you want to get there early.

The Webster Arboretum will also be there with an information table, and some large raffle baskets. Plus, their 2026 membership cards and new 2026 calendar will be available or purchase.

The sale is the Country Gardeners’ annual fundraiser, so think about decorating your own home, and purchasing gifts for family, friends and holiday hostesses. Admission is free.

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(posted 10/29/2025)

So. Much. Candy. So many photos.

25 Oct

Thank you, Village of Webster business owners, for the fun excuse to eat too much candy every year on the Saturday before Halloween.

I mean, that’s what always happens when I wander the streets on Trick-or-Treat Trail day in the village (always with my daughter Erin at my side), stopping by to chat with all of the business owners I’ve come to know. Invariably I leave with a Butterfinger or Reese’s Cup in my hand or stuffed in my pocket for later. And this year, Netsin’s had their ice cream truck there as well; that cup of Panda Paws was kind of like lunch, right? Erin and I may have also stopped by for a pint at the Mary Wee before heading home.

Of course we also made sure to pop into the Webster Museum, where they always have a fun scavenger hunt, and the Webster Volunteer Fire Department, which holds their open house during the event.

So it was a great time, but as always, I struggled to get photos of all the incredible costumes we saw as we wandered. There were a lot of dinosaurs (small and huge), Roblox and Minecraft characters (my daughter had to help me identify them), and some perennial favorites like Winnie the Pooh and the Wizard of Oz. But I saw a lot of unique costumes as well, like the young man who was a garbage collector.

The weather was cool and started out a little spitty, which I think muted the crowd numbers a bit compared to previous years, but I still managed to take 70 or 80 photos. There are a few here, but many more in this Facebook gallery.

Thank you to the Webster Business Improvement District for organizing the event, and to all the business owners who participated.

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(posted 10/25/2025)

Welcome to the Village of Webster, Main Dive!

24 Oct

It took me a couple of weeks, but I finally had a chance to check out the Village of Webster’s newest drinking and dining establishment, the Main Dive.

The Main Dive officially earlier this month at 5 West Main St., in the former Roc Style Chicken and Burger. To be totally honest, when I popped in that first time, I really didn’t know what to expect. My preconception (based on no experience) was that a “dive bar” would be kind of shabby, dark and unwelcoming.

But boy, was I wrong.

Roc Style was a fine restaurant, but Main Dive owner Brittney Amato has somehow transformed it into an even more inviting space that feels tailor-made for after-softball gatherings, happy hour get-togethers with friends, football watch parties, or Friday-after-school hangouts.

And that’s exactly the vibe that Brittney was going for, because that’s HER definition of a dive bar: a place that’s very “laid back, with cheap drinks, a lot of specials, cheap food … just a good atmosphere.”

Brittney and her husband Justin have been in the restaurant business for a while. You might recognize the names of their previous restaurants, Amato’s Cafe downtown on University, and Amato’s Cravings on West Main Street in Rochester. COVID and a short stint in Nashville detoured their plans for a while, but when they came back to New York State they started looking for something new.

“We were looking for a bakery or another sit-down restaurant,” she said. “We didn’t know what route we wanted to take. But then I thought ‘a dive bar.’ … We chose Webster because this place fit the description of what we were looking for. Small, cozy, right on Main St.”

The Main Dive has already become known for their inexpensive drinks and bar food menu. Apparently their wing sauce is the talk of the town. Lots of TV screens (which will eventually number at least 10) will keep sports fans entertained while there’s plenty of seating — including an extended bar — for everyone else who might just want to chat with friends and family. There’s a juke box, darts, and chalk in the bathrooms so you can leave a message on the wall. Basically, it’s a little bit of something for everyone.

“I really want people to know us as the place that doesn’t really define themselves as a specific themed bar,” Brittney said. “We don’t want people to think it’s just young crowd or older crowd. We welcome everything … We just want to please everyone.”

The Main Dive opens at 11:00 every morning (except noon on Sunday) and will stay open until at least 11 p.m. — midnight on the weekends. But Bruttney’s plan is to “serve food as late as possible. So if there are people in the bar at 1 a.m. who still want some boneless wings, she’ll accommodate.

You can check out their menu on their Facebook page and Instagram. You should also stop in this weekend if you’re in town for the Village of Webster’s Trick or Treat Trail on Saturday. The Main Dive will be participating.

They’re also planning a big Halloween Party on the 31st beginning at 9 p.m., complete with a costume contest with cash prizes. Cover charge is $5. Check the Facebook event for more information.

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(posted 10/24/2025)

An update on Returns for a Reason

21 Oct

When last we heard from young Pierson Farina — Webster Village resident and world-changer — he was presenting a $100 donation to the Webster Volunteer Fire Department (WVFD). Pierson had raised the money through his “Returns for a Reason” fundraising initiative, in which he is collecting and redeeming returnable bottles and cans to benefit local agencies.

His plan is to make a donation every time he collects $100. He began the project earlier this summer, and it only took him three months to raise his first $100. He chose the WVFD by random as the first beneficiary. In just one more month, thanks to great support from the Webster community, Pierson raised $200 more, donating the funds to Lollypop Farm and Honor Flight Rochester.

Now Pierson is well on his way to raising another $100 for his fourth cause: Spry Middle School, where he attends school. The principal there, Dr. Chris Callahan, has agreed to allow Pierson to put a can in the cafeteria to collect the students’ returnables. Apparently Spry is in need of a bike rack since so many kids ride their bikes to school, and Pierson wants to help raise money for that.

If you’d like to help Pierson continue his charitable efforts, stash your returnables in your car, and the next time you’re in the village, drive down Dunning Ave. and look for the bin with the Returns for a Reason flyer attached to the front!

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(posted 10/21/2025)

Local jazz musician hits the big screen in new Springsteen film

20 Oct

Are you planning to check out the new Bruce Springsteen movie when it hits the theaters this coming Friday? If you do, you’ll see a face that you might recognize, especially if you’re a jazz fan.

In the movie, Deliver Me From Nowhere, Rochester resident Judah Sealy plays the part of Clarence Clemons, who for almost 40 years was the backbone of Springsteen’s E Street Band, his saxophone solos providing a signature sound to the band’s many hits, including “Born to Run” and “Jungleland.”

Sealy is a chart-topping smooth jazz saxophonist and regular performer at the Village of Webster’s annual Jazz Festival. A few days ago I had the opportunity to chat with him to get his thoughts on what he called a “once-in-a-lifetime dream.”

It was about a year ago when Sealy first found out that a movie about Springsteen was in the works, when he got a Facebook message from fellow musician — and highly renowned saxophone player — Andy Snitzer. The two had never even met, but Snitzer was familiar with Sealy’s work.

He reached out to me and he said, “There is a woman named Sandy Park who is the music contractor for an upcoming film about Bruce Springsteen, and they are looking for someone to play the part of Clarence Clemons. … somebody who actually plays saxophone who could embody Clarence Clemons. … I think that you would be great for the part.” 

Sealy was hesitant at first; he didn’t know anything about movies, and as a single father was worried about the travel and the time commitment that would be involved. But when Park contacted him and told him what they were doing, he agreed to try out.  

For the audition, Sealy was told to film himself playing the solo from “Born to Run.” He recorded it three times before he was happy with the result and sent it off. But on the advice of his friend Deepak Thettu, he also added a “bonus track” to his audition: You’re a Friend of Mine, which Clemons recorded with Jackson Browne in 1985 and became a big hit.  

Sealy was one of hundreds of musicians trying out for the role, but the extra effort made his audition tape stand out from them all. “(Sandy) said, that’s the one that sealed the deal. She told me that when I did that song, I was able to show more of the character of Clarence than just his playing, and that’s what they really wanted.”

Sealy was awarded the role last September, and flew down in October to meet the director and the other musicians and take part in the first rehearsal, held at the Power Station recording studio, where Springsteen produced his iconic album Born in the USA. Then back down again in November for wardrobe fittings and wig fittings.

In December, Sealy returned to film his first scene, which took place at The Stone Pony, a music venue in Asbury Park, NJ, which Springsteen would frequent. By the time filming wrapped up in January, he’d been back and forth to New York four or five times, filming recording sessions and concert scenes at the Power Station, Stone Pony and the Meadowlands.

It was a unique experience which gave him renewed respect for how hard actors work.

“Every scene they shot we had to do literally at least 30 times,” Sealy said. “They would do the same scene from one angle, then five or six times from another angle, then they do the same scene with closeups on Jeremy (who was playing Springsteen), members of the band, the audience.”

The band members had to project the same raw energy with each take.

We delivered it every single time. We had to. The director said we had to learn the music exactly the way it was played, note for note. Imagine how difficult that is. When the original members of the E Street Band and Bruce were performing this music, they were adding their own embellishments to the song, whereas we had to learn their embellishments. Imagine the way that somebody might be riffing on something, we had to learn how they riffed. That was a talent in and of itself. 

It definitely takes a toll.

And yes, he did get to meet The Boss himself.

Our very first day we were filming, me and the members of the E Street Band are at the Stone Pony, waiting for what we’re supposed to do, on set seeing what the venue was like, where we would be filming, and in walks Bruce. He came over and said, “How you guys doin”? We’re all starstruck, like, what is our life, are you serious? This is crazy. 

After going to wardrobe and makeup, Bruce comes up to me, because he knew I was playing Clarence, and he said, “It’s nice to see The Big Man again.” My heart just melted. (Clemons passed away in 2011.)

Sealy doesn’t have many scenes in the film, but the ones he does have are powerful.

There was another time when we were filming a scene and I was doing what I thought was my best, playing the character of Clarence. After we finished the scene, the music producer pulled me aside, and he says, “When you were doing that scene, Bruce started weeping while he was watching it on the monitor. He was saying, ‘I miss my friend, I miss my friend.’ The fact that you were able to provoke that reaction, I applaud you.”

I was so moved. Even as cool as this opportunity was, I wanted to do justice to Clarence’s family, to the fans, to Bruce’s relationship with Clarence. Even though it’s very brief that I’m on the film, I didn’t want to just go up there and make myself look cool. I wanted to do it justice and to get that kind of reaction from Bruce was very special.

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(posted 10/20/2025)

October History Bit: Meet the Webster Museum (Part 5)

19 Oct

For today’s History Bit, we continue our museum tour of Webster, but step off of Main Street for a quick peek into some typical early-1900s homes.

At the back, easternmost end of the museum, are three period rooms – a parlor, bedroom and kitchen – which seem to have been frozen in history, plucked straight out of the early 20th century. Displayed within them are dozens of common household items which reflect what everyday life was like in the Town of Webster in those early days.

A pump organ and melodeon (a small reed organ) anchor the furnishings in the first room, the parlor, reflecting that this family was probably a bit more upper class – and liked their entertainment. Standing nearby are an Edison table-top Victrola and a crank-handle cabinet Victrola which still plays records. And remember Viewmasters? Next time you stop by the museum, make sure you try out their inspiration, a stereoscope. 

Next door to the parlor is the bedroom, where a typical rope bed sits in the center of the room, not far from the very important chamber pot, wash basin and pitcher. Make sure to pause to read the interpretive text panel to learn where the phrase “sleep tight!” came from. 

The last room, the kitchen, features dozens of tools essential to keep a home running. There’s an ice box, a cast iron stove (which used wood or coal), a toaster, iron and ironing board and lots of kitchen gadgets that made everyday life in a busy household a little easier to manage.   

Stay tuned for the next stop on our museum tour when we learn more about Webster’s apple and basket industries and much more. In the meantime, you can find out more about the Webster Museum on their website, webstermuseum.org. Or stop by for a personal tour. 

The Webster Museum is located at 18 Lapham Park in the village, and is open every Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday from 2 to 4:30 p.m. There’s no admission charge. 

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(posted 10/19/2025)