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Their Light Shines at Webster Comfort Care honored the memories of loved ones

10 Oct

I wasn’t able to attend this year’s Their Light Shines memorial luminaria gathering at the Webster Comfort Care Home (WCCH) on Thursday night, but I understand it was as poignant as always, and very well attended.

WCCH executive director Julianne Groff estimated that more than 100 people attended and said they’d sold around 220 luminaria, the most ever. When they were all artfully arranged on the grounds, the illuminated bags made a beautiful and deeply moving sight. The event also featured a slide show with the name of everyone who has ever been a resident at the home, a fire in the home’s new fire pit (built by Eagle Scout Connor Madison), and homemade baked goods.

The evening’s speakers included Jessica Orchard, whose grandfather, Webster Volunteer firefighter Ron Orchard, was a resident in the summer of 2022, who spoke on behalf of her family. Following Jessica’s remarks, Julianne welcomed the attendees, thanking the volunteers and especially thanking the residents’ families for trusting the Webster Comfort Care Home for allowing them to help with their loved ones’ journeys.

In her remarks, Julianne said,

Here at the Home, we are given the profound privilege of walking alongside individuals and families during one of life’s most sacred chapters. We see love in its purest form: in quiet bedside moments, in the clasp of a hand, in a whispered goodbye, in the resilience of families who show up day after day, heart wide open.

Each person we remember today brought something unique into the world — a laugh, a story, a strength, a lesson. And although they are no longer with us in body, their spirit lingers in all the ways they shaped the lives around them. We carry their legacies forward — not only through memories, but through the love they gave and the lessons they taught us.

To the families and loved ones gathered here: we see your grief. We honor it. We also see your courage. The care, the time, the tenderness you gave in their final days — that was love in action. You did your best. And that mattered. To our staff and volunteers: thank you. You do sacred work. And even when it feels invisible, it is never forgotten. What you give at the end of life echoes far beyond it.

Tonight, as we remember those we’ve lost, let us also reflect on what they taught us — about grace, about dignity, and about how precious each moment truly is. Let us remember them not with just sadness, but with deep gratitude for having known them.

In closing, I invite each of you to hold a memory in your heart — a smile, a story, a moment of love — and let it be a light that stays with you.

Here’s a full slideshow of photos from the evening. Many thanks to “Jet” Thomas for all of these photos.

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(posted 10/9/2025)

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Here’s a great chance to check out Scouting

9 Oct

If you’ve ever thought about getting your son or daughter involved in Scouting, but didn’t know much about the organization, what you have to do to get started, or who to contact, then this event coming up next week is for you.

It’s a Scouting America Open House, scheduled for Saturday Oct. 18 from noon to 5 p.m. at the Webster Presbyterian Church, 550 Webster Rd. (Rt. 250).

Families with boys and girls from kindergarten through age 20 are invited to stop by and check out all the different Scouting options in Webster. Four troops will be represented:

  • Family Pack 262 for boys and girls in grades K-5
  • Troop 262 for boys ages 11-17
  • Troop 425 for girls ages 11-17
  • Paddle Crew 462 (canoeing kayaking and paddle boarding) for boys and girls age 14-20

Participants can try out a variety of typical Scouting activities like bottle rockets, a rope bridge, pinewood derby, first-aid, archery and much more.

Free pizza will be provided by Caraglio’s Pizza, and there’ll be some free raffles. No registration is necessary — just stop by!

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(posted 10/9/2025)

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Village Quilt Shoppe hosts silent auction to benefit One Common Thread

8 Oct

I’ve written here many times about The Village Quilt Shoppe, at 21 East Main St., ’cause it’s one of my favorite shops in town, run by two wonderful people, Vanetta Parshall and Monique Liberti. And more than once in those blogs, I focused on how this little shop is spreading love around the world, through their support of One Common Thread.

One Common Thread’s mission is to empower women in Central America — specifically Honduras — by giving them the opportunity to work and and earn an income, which helps set a new standard for their children.

How Vanetta and Monique do this is simple:

  • First, their customers generously donate fabric and 3” squares.
  • Volunteers meet regularly at the shop to create kits from those donations and send them to One Common Thread in Honduras.
  • The women there learn the art of English Paper Piecing (EPP), hand-basting hexagons that they are paid for individually.
  • Once enough hexagons are made, they’re sewn into kits or quilts, then returned to the U.S. to be sold.

The income these women earn allows them to provide essentials such as food, diapers, formula, stoves, beds, tin roofs, cement floors, and tuition for their children’s education. In some cases, it even helps them attend trade school themselves. For many, this is their first chance to gain financial independence and self-confidence.

The Village Quilt Shoppe has proudly sent fabric, kits, needles, and thread for more than four years. But they’d really like to do more.

Recently, the shop received some of the women’s finished products, which inspired them to host a Silent Auction to continue supporting this incredible organization. The auction will be held from Oct. 14 through 28. Auction items will be on display at the shop, 21 East Main St., for in-person viewing and bidding. Items will also be listed on the Village Quilt Shoppe website, and bids can be placed by calling the shop at 585-626-6916.

Proceeds from the auction will help Vanetta and Monique cover packaging and shipping costs, and any left over funds will be donated directly back to One Common Thread.

Here are just two images of some of the items available for auction. Check the website to see more.

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(posted 10/9/2025)

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Webster Theatre Guild presents “Shrek the Musical” this weekend

8 Oct

There’s good news — and better news — about the Webster Theatre Guild’s production of Shrek the Musical this weekend and next: first, there are still some tickets available, which I found surprising because this is the kind of show, featuring top-tier talent, which will likely sell out.

Next, if you’re an educator or a student, you can get discounted tickets to the matinees on Saturday Oct. 11 and Saturday Oct. 18.

Webster has come to expect amazing productions from the Webster Theatre Guild, and Shrek will be no different. The cast includes 59 incredibly talented dancers and actors, ages 10 through 70+, drawn from respected theater groups from all over the city, including GEVA, Blackfriars Theater, Pittsford Musicals, School of the Arts and our very own Webster high schools.

photos by Samper Images

Directed by Bill Ambler, supported by choreographer Shari Bischoping and orchestra leader Laura Mueller, Shrek the Musical will be presented in six shows, all taking place at Bishop Kearney High School, 125 Kings Hwy South, Rochester:

  • Friday, Oct. 10 at 7 p.m.
  • Saturday, Oct. 11 at 2 p.m. and 7 p.m.
  • Friday, Oct. 17 at 7 p.m.
  • Saturday, Oct. 18 at 2 p.m. and 7 p.m.
    (ASL Interpretation TBD)

Tickets are $20 (plus a handling fee). Educators and students will get a $5 discount for matinee tickets. Click here to get yours now. For the matinee discount, go to the ticket site, put the matinee tickets in your shopping cart and apply the discount code SWAMP5. You can also purchase discount tickets at the door with your educator or student ID.

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(posted 10/8/2025)

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Sign up now for the Webster Museum’s annual Festival of Trees

7 Oct

Yes, it’s only October, but the Webster Museum is already thinking ahead to the holidays, and their annual Festival of Trees.

This year’s Tree Festival will begin on Saturday, Dec. 6, which is (not coincidentally) the same day as the Village of Webster’s Winter Wonderland holiday event. Starting that day and through the end of the year, museum visitors can vote for their favorite decorated mini-Christmas tree among 15 to 20 beautiful and creative entries. (Online voting will also be offered.)

But before that can happen, individuals, families and organizations need to step up and do some decorating! Two $25 prizes will be awarded for the trees getting the most votes.

Spots are filling up quickly, but there’s still time to get involved. If you’re interested in decorating a tree, call Gwen Hoffman at (585) 738-6221.

By the way, the museum is also looking for a few additional music groups willing to share their talents during the Winter Wonderland festivities at the museum. So call Gwen if you’re interested in doing that as well.

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(posted 10/7/2025)

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So what’s up with Roc City Empanadas?

6 Oct

There’s been some chatter on social media in recent weeks about the new Roc City Empanadas restaurant on South Ave. in the village. Luis Carrasquillo — better known as “Munchie” — opened the restaurant in early July and for a while did some brisk business. But then the open hours became sporadic, and more recently, it almost seems like it’s closed permanently.

Well, the sporadic summer hours were due to the fact that Luis was juggling his new restaurant responsibilities with a very busy food truck schedule. When that started to slow down, he started to focus more on the restaurant. But when the restaurant went dark again in early September, people started to question whether Luis was really committed to the village.

But here’s the real story, which I tell with Luis’ blessing, because he really wants people to know what happened.

About a month ago, Luis was involved in a frightening accident. He was on the shoulder of Five Mile Line Rd., helping a friend secure a fence to her trailer, when another driver struck him. The impact sent him flying ten feet.

Luis suffered a compound fracture to his leg and was losing blood rapidly. A veteran who happened on the scene applied a tourniquet, most definitely saving his life.

Last I spoke with Luis (about two weeks ago) he’d already had six operations to try to save the leg. I don’t know where things stand now (I’m trying to get in touch with him again), but I do know one thing: Luis Carrasquillo feels blessed.

Not angry, not depressed, not despondent. Blessed.

Luis’ religious faith is rock-solid, and he’s certain that God was with him that evening, not only because he survived the accident, but because so many other things went RIGHT. Like how he was thrown clear of the traffic and not into the roadway. Like how the tourniquet (which belonged to his friend) just appeared on the ground next to her crushed vehicle. How the veteran showed up and knew how and where to apply it. The ambulance got there in record time. And most important of all, how one of the MRIs revealed a growth in his forehead which was causing him headaches.

Luis still has a long road ahead, but he wants everyone to know that his commitment to the Village of Webster — his home — is unwavering.

“I want the people to know, don’t give up on me,” he said. “”I don’t want people to be sad. I am so happy with my lord and my community and I love all of you guys. … and I want to find the veteran and give him a hug.”

As Luis recuperates, he hopes that friends and family will be able to keep the restaurant open three or four days a week, mostly on the weekends, offering pretty much his entire menu. Those same friends and family are also working with the United Way to create a GoFundMe. So keep an eye out for the OPEN sign, and stay tuned for more information about that fund-raising effort.

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Update!

One of my readers (“Pooch”) posted a comment last night (which you can read below) saying the restaurant happened to be open last Friday, and he spoke to Luis’ son Angel. The GREAT news is that Luis was scheduled to be released last weekend. Let’s hope that happened.

Pooch continued,

Store hours will continue to be sporadic until Luis recovers. Please hang in there! Try to get there when they are open. Luis’s faith is really strong and he wants everyone to know that he apologizes for the delay in getting the store open with regular hours, but it will happen! Luis is a strong strong man, and a man of his word…

Thanks Pooch!

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(posted 10/6/2025)


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There’s no place like home

5 Oct

So I was out of town for most of the last two weeks, which some of my most loyal readers might have suspected given the rather sporadic nature of my blog posting. My husband and I took a trip up to Maine — a state neither of us had been to before — by way of Cape Cod, where I have family.

I studiously avoided calling the trip a “vacation,” since retirement itself is kind of a long-term vacation. And I managed to write and schedule a lot of blogs in advance to automatically post almost every day so that I basically didn’t have to “work” at all while we were traveling.

It was a terrific trip, dampened only by the heavy rains we encountered in Cape Cod, which apparently the entire Northeast was experiencing at the same time. The weather during the following eight days, however, was gloriously sunny and warm, which made up for the soggy start.

From Cape Cod we headed north for two days in Camden, Maine, then three days in Bar Harbor and Acadia National Park, then spent some time in Concord, Mass., soaking up some Revolutionary War history. We saw spectacular scenery, met some nice people, learned some history and did a lot of hiking and bike riding.

But, funny thing …. as enjoyable as every day was, my mind kept coming back to Webster.

  • As I drove through the peak colors in Concord, I wondered if that beautiful red maple in front of the Baptist Church was in its full glory yet.
  • As I rode along an Acadia Park Carriage Trail, bursting with colorful autumn foliage, I thought of the equally beautiful Four Mile Creek Trail — my favorite of all the Webster trails.
  • As I hiked up Mt. Megunticook in Camden and saw a sign soliciting volunteers to help maintain the trails, I thought, “Hmmm…. the Friends of Webster Trails should do that, ’cause they need volunteers ….”
  • As I let the bracingly cold ocean surf run over my toes on Sand Beach in Acadia, I wondered if Lake Ontario is warmer at this time of year.
  • As I wandered through Sleepy Hollow Cemetery in Concord, I took special note of gravestones which needed to be righted or cleaned, and thought of the hard work being done at Webster Union Cemetery to do that for our founding fathers’ stones.
  • And as I lay my head down on my pillow at the historic Colonial Inn hotel in Concord that last night, I thought, “This is nice, but it will be nice to be in my own bed tomorrow night.”

I think the lesson I learned these last few weeks is that it’s a lot of fun to see new places, chalk up some new experiences, meet new people and try new foods. I loved every minute of it, but in the end, my heart remains solidly in Webster.

It’s good to be home.

(Click here if you’re at all interested in seeing more photos from the trip.)

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(posted 10/5/2025)

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Join me for BINGO and help benefit a great organization

4 Oct

“B-14!”
“N-32!”
“G-60!”

You’ll have to excuse me. I’m practicing my bingo-calling skills, because they’re somewhat lacking.

OK, to be totally honest, they’re entirely lacking, because I’ve never before been a bingo caller. So I have to practice up, because just a short while ago, my friend Jamie Buss asked me to be one of two guest bingo callers at a brand-new bingo fundraising event a few weeks from now to benefit Making Spirits Bright.

Jamie Buss and Tracy Nappi are the driving force behind Making Spirits Bright, a nonprofit organization established in 2014 with one simple mission: to provide smiles for families in need during the holiday season. Over the last 11 years, Making Spirits Bright has helped nearly 600 families, mostly through generous donations from community members, who sign up to fill families’ wish lists.

But sometimes some of those wish lists go unfilled, and many include big-ticket items. That’s where this family-friendly afternoon of BINGO will come into play (pun intended).

The fun happens on Sunday, Oct. 19 from 1 to 4 p.m., at the Webster Recreation Center, 1350 Chiyoda Dr. (Don’t worry, it’s a bye week for the Bills.) Participants will each get 10 games with three boards each game, a BINGO dabber, light refreshments and drinks. Winners will receive gift cards and gift baskets donated by local businesses and Making Spirits Bright supporters. You can buy tickets for some fabulous raffle prizes, and if you bring a new toiletry item, unopened cleaning supply, or gift-wrapping item (wrapping paper, ribbon, etc.) you’ll get a free raffle ticket.

Admission is $15 for kids and $25 for adults, capped at $75 per family. For more information and to purchase tickets, click here.

And business owners, Making Spirits Bright is still looking for event sponsors. For as little as $100 you can get some great visibility for your business, a ticket to the event, have a lot of fun and feel good about supporting a terrific organization. Click here for more details.

By the way, my bingo-calling partner in this fun adventure will be Mike Petzing. You know him as the owner of Shamrock Jack’s Irish Pub where he showcases his BINGO-calling prowess once a month.

(Great … so HE has experience. I’d better get back to practicing.)

“O-63! N-35! I-30! BINGO!” (Wait. I’m not supposed to be yelling that …..)

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(posted 10/4/2025)

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Webster community mailbag

3 Oct

Town leaf collection schedule announced

The Town of Webster has announced that leaf collection will begin in mid-to-late October, following the conclusion of paving and drainage projects, and depending on how many leaves have fallen and weather. Crews will begin working in Zone 1 to Zone 5, and then back to Zone 1. Highway crews make several passes throughout the season.

Make sure to place leaves at the edge of your lawn (NOT in the roadway, gutters, or drainage ditches), do not bag them, an Don;t place brush, rocks, wood, plastic, or other foreign material with your leaves

Announcements will be made ahead of the final pass. After the final pass, any leaves will need to be taken care of by residents through their refuse collection company or another means.

The Village of Webster hasn’t announced any specifics for their leaf collection efforts yet, but you can check the Village website for updates.

Webster Chamber hosts networking event

Webster Chamber of Commerce members host monthly after-hours networking events to earn visibility for their business/organization. Members and those investigating Chamber membership are welcome to attend. 

The next After Hours event will be held on Wednesday, Oct. 15 from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m. at Marina Auto Group, 943 Ridge Road. This event is also being hosted by Marina family member Rose Gabriele Angell of RE/Max Plus. There’s no fee to attend, but registration is required.

WHEN will host fall Drug Take-Back event

Webster Health and Education Network, together with the Town of Webster and the Webster Police Department will host a DEA National Drug Take Back event on Saturday, Oct. 18 from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Webster Town Court, 1002 Ridge Rd. (behind Town Hall; look for the blue roof). Clear out your medicine cabinet to help to keep Webster safe. This will be a drive-through event so you don’t even have to get out of your car! 

This is your chance to safely dispose of unused, expired or unwanted medications. Registration is not required, but if you register you’ll get a reminder via email about the event. You can register and get more details here.

Save some lives — give blood

The American Red Cross has four blood drives in Webster these next several weeks:

  • Friday, Oct. 3, 11 a.m. to 4 p.m., Webster Public Library, 980 Ridge Rd.
  • Tuesday, Oct. 7, 1 to 6 p.m., Webster American Legion, 818 Ridge Rd.
  • Thursday Oct. 16, 1 to 6 p.m., Webster Firemen’s Building, 172 Sanford St.
  • Saturday, Oct. 25, 9 a.m. to 2 p.m., St. Martin’s Lutheran Church, 813 Bay Rd.

You don’t need to have an appointment, but it will speed things up a bit. Click here to make yours.

St. Martin’s announces next BBQ event

Good food is in store at St. Martin Lutheran Church when they host their next Pulled Pork Drive-Thru on Saturday Oct. 18 from 4:30 p.m. until they run out.

The take-out dinner includes pulled pork, salt potatoes, roll, cole slaw and cookie for just $15. Pull into the parking lot, place your order using exact payment, and the dinner will be delivered to you as you drive up in your car.

Proceeds will support the church’s annual Christmas Stocking Project reaching over 500 children and teens in Monroe and Wayne counties. St. Martin Lutheran Church is located at 813 Bay Rd.

The Friends of the Webster Public Library’s Book Sale will be held Wednesday, Oct. 22 through Saturday, Oct. 25. The first day of the sale — Oct. 22 from 4 to 7 p.m. — is exclusively for Friends members. Membership can be purchased at websterlibrary.org or at the door.  

All are welcome to attend the book sale on Oct. 23 from 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. Hardcover books will be $1 each and paperbacks are only 50 cents each. Oct. 24 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. and Oct. 25 from 10 a.m. to noon are Bring-Your-Own-Bag Sale days, when you can fill your bag with books for only $5. All are welcome to attend the BYOB Sale days.

Proceeds from the sale support the library.

Fashions and fun

The Women’s Club of Rochester will host their annual Fashion Show/Luncheon on Saturday, Nov. 8 from 11 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. at the Penfield Country Club.

In addition to some great fashions from J. Jill and a delicious luncheon, there’ll be an auction, 50/50 raffle, and a Lottery Board. Guests will arrive at 11 a.m., lunch is served at noon, and the fashion parade begins at 1 p.m. Menu options include apple crisp with salad and roll, a “mile-high” Reuben, or C=chicken French.

Tickets are $37 per person, and reservations must be made by October 23. Send your check, made out to the Women’s Club of Rochester, and meal selection to Margaret Zanghi , 2 Onyx Drive, Penfield, NY 14526.

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(posted 10/3/2025)

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Nina Scalzo Smithson inducted into HS Girls Soccer Hall of Fame

2 Oct

A belated congratulations to Webster Schroeder alumna Nina (Scalzo) Smithson (class of 2000) for her recent induction into the New York High School Girls Soccer Hall of Fame.

As a forward for Webster Schroeder, Nina had a remarkable high school career, leading her team in scoring all four years. She set a school record with 90 goals and 50 assists, a performance that earned her numerous accolades, including being named Greater Rochester Player of the Year in 1998 and Monroe County Division I Player of the Year in 1999. She was a three-time All-Greater Rochester and All-County first-team selection and was named first-team All-State as a junior and senior.

After high school, Nina continued her successful career at Syracuse University, where she became a four-year starter. She ranks fourth all-time at the university in career goals (24) and points (61) and sixth in assists (13). She earned Soccer Buzz All-Regional Honors, becoming the first player from her program to be selected to the first team.

The induction ceremony for the Class of 2025 took place on September 6, at Niskayuna High School in Schenectady. Nina is the first athlete from Webster Central School District to receive this honor.

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(posted 10/2/2025)

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